We could be overanalyzing and dissecting every single gesture or word he says, and yet we still can’t figure out why he hasn’t returned our call. Even if it’s possible that he has just realized that he likes you, it’s more likely that he’s realized that he’s lost someone who makes him feel desirable. You send him a text today, and it takes him days to respond.
Nothing is ever clear-cut when you’re just speculating on whether someone genuinely likes you or not. A guy who genuinely fancies you should reply within the day at least, right? He was probably occupied at the time you texted, but that doesn’t mean he can’t spare a few seconds to reply.
Do you want to know if your date wants more than to make out in the parking lot after drinking Pisco Sours with you?
You need to learn some simple communication and body and language cues that will give you a head's up into what he is really thinking. When you go on a first date please don't have expectations, except to meet a new person and have a good time.
Happily-ever-after takes more than one date, and you will both be sizing each other up to see if you have chemistry and similar communication.
If things progress from certain cues on the first date, and there's a date two, then you will be on your way to a boyfriend.
You feel like, put in your presence in any way, you would have ended up together regardless.
Does it always feel like whenever you invite him for coffee or to catch up, his response is, “I’ll check my sched,” or “I’ll let you know,” or “Hmmm…” Shady responses lets him keep you in suspense, but be warned, if he really wants to have that coffee with you, he’ll either set up the time and place or he’ll say yes to your suggestion. But when it’s always a surprise and nothing ever gets planned, that’s when things start to get fishy. Or could it be because his plans got cancelled and he knows you’d always be willing to hang out with him? Take this as a polite hint that he sees you only as a friend. What else is there to do when it’s late and his cognitive skills have been flushed down the toilet?
He probably knows you’d take him in given his current state or he’s looking to get laid.
Almost always, he knows he can flirt sexually over the phone or get to sleep with you with the least bit of effort.
In the meantime, keep an eye out for these 14 sure-fire signs that your date really likes you:1. Your date gives you plenty of room to share yourself with your words and not take over the conversation.2. The conversation flows and neither of you have a look of terror on your face.3. If your date has pupils that are getting bigger, it is a sign of attraction.
This doesn't happen consciously, rather subconsciously. Low light also makes pupils dilate, so keep this in mind.4. Eyes softening and holding your gaze for longer periods of time is another gauge of attraction. Smiling reduces stress and when the muscles around his eyes engage, and you can see the smile in his eyes.