Our lives would pretty much be on the same page even though the age gap is large.
However, if you are 25 and the man you love is 40 or 45 - that is a big deal!
Many supporters observed that much of the criticism was rooted in the persistent stereotype that gay men are predators looking for fresh young things.
Also called out was the media’s double standard when it comes to straight male stars wooing significantly younger women: Johnny Depp is 51, after all, while his new wife, Amber Heard, is 28.
Thankfully, in the wake of headlines calling Spencer a “toyboy” and tweets describing Fry as “disgusting” came a flurry of think pieces unpacking and defending intergenerational gay relationships.
He may not want children and he may be thinking of retiring when you are only beginning your career and want a family.
He may develop serious health problems that deplete your finances and prevent you from living the full and active life that your contemporaries are.
You should give careful consideration to your situation before committing to this person; if that is the level your relationship has reached.
Have very open and frank discussions with the person you love about children and future plans; and be completely honest about what you want.